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about the Tour
Why ride bicycles?
Over the summer of 2004, Raphael rode his bicycle from Brooklyn
to Palm Beach to register voters for the 2004 election. The ride
was supposed to be a vaction of sorts, but one that would benefit
others too. What he found was that riding a bicycle was an exceptional
way to communicate a message. "When you are a spandex-clad
cyclist with 60 lbs. of gear on a bicycle, people approach you,"
he explaines. The unique strength of this platform derives from
the magnetic power of spectacle. Spandex-clad, exuding an aura of
health and adventure, and riding a bicycle with gear overflowing
every rack and strut, the cyclist elicits countless questions. “Is
it safe?” “Where do you sleep?” “How many
miles do you ride in a day?” The mere presence of such a cyclist
provokes unparalleled curiosity.
A skilled activist simply leverages this curiosity. After converting
curiosity to respect, he is able to deliver a credible, progressive
message. Combining equal parts athlete, salesman, and politico,
I rode through areas that had already been deluged with heavily-financed
voter-registration campaigns and was nevertheless able to register
over 3,000 people!
Having proved to myself that the bicycle can be an outstanding ‘vehicle’
for promoting grass-roots social change, I founded an organization
that will utilize the “macho” persona of the long-distance
cyclist to reach a group not typically receptive to women’s
issues.
What is your specific agenda?
In the United States, we are riding to raise awareness
that men can work to end sexual violence. We are going to perform
a 1-2 hour presentation in schools along our route that has been
developed in coordination with our partner, Men Can Stop Rape. This
presentation looks at how young men can use their strength for protection,
and how to understand what a 'real man' is in terms of self-sacrifice
and moral strength in place of a masculinity defined by violence
and competition.
Our focus in Asia is the prevention of trafficking
in women and girls. We are currently in talks with several local
non-profits to develop activities for each country that we visit.
Especially given the feared spike in this horrific practice due
to the tsunami orphans, Tour for Equality wishes to raise awareness
that there are solutions and actions that can be taken to combat
the problem. We will be visiting organizations that have been successful
and featuring them on our website.
Why are guys riding for women's rights?
This is the question that some of my friends keep asking me. And
the answer is partly set out on the home
page, but beyond that:
The inequality that many women experience is not a
result of a few people sitting around and deciding to disempower
women. It is the result of a system that is unfairly biased. The
riders, who are all friends, were discussing the nature of this
privilege that we enjoy as men, and we realized how shameful it
is to enjoy the fruits of a biased system without attempting to
change it. This change is best perpetuated by men, beacause as the
dominany group the power to change the system lies with us. In fact,
if men do not think seriously about questioning and challenging
the unfair power that we receive, it will simply never go away.
While this may be nice for us, it is nothing that we can be proud
of. As men, we acknowledge the power of common assumptions and attitudes
to create an unjust situation; we also acknowledge our responsibility
to counter those soothing ploys with introspection and integrity.
Is there anything that I can do to help the cause
without donating?
Absolutely. The most important thing in ending inequality is changing
people's hearts and minds. Help children point out the sexist or
destructive messages in pop culture. These messages take the form
of blatant sexism or unfairly boxing in the idea of what it takes
to be a "real man" or a "real woman". Don't
stand by in abusive situations. And do not support industries that
profit from the sexual slavery of women.
You can check and see if there are shelters in your
area that could use help or volunteers. You can find out what is
going on in your community and get involved. |